Trust and vulnerability
Trust and vulnerability - are two aspects of any human beings life which are fleeting in any long-term relationship, much less, picking up the phone and confiding in a total Stranger. Having contacted Dr. Ginny - shortly after being informed my significant other had been in a year-long affair - and my present state of mind - destroyed was embraced by this caring, sympathetic, kind and endearing human being - Dr. Ginny. Dr. Ginny did not abruptly offer obtrusive or irrelevant information to rectify the circumstances but took the time and effort to fully disclose all pertinent details of our relationship to include fault of my own and particular instances which, ultimately, contributed to the affair. Accountability in any relationship is critical t its survival and healing. Although we human beings feel we are open to change and the progression of change discovered through repetitive actions in the attempt to circumvent offered advice by Dr. Ginny and the unproductive results soon learned to embrace and implement the recommendation in the same manner that it was given. Dr. Ginny - even in these instances was caring and attentive to the results - "Did you follow the advice given and orchestrate in the manner given? The answer was always No, and the results were lacking thereof. Only after following Dr. Ginny's advice exactly as advised did I realize the path to recovery and an opening to self and relationship reconciliation. Dr. Ginny - instilled mantras such as "Love, Love, Love - No Matter What" the actions of my spouse. These mantras coupled with the reflection in the mirror were difficult to adopt in the beginning due to the betrayal within my marriage, however, through consistent support and encouragement in continual counseling with Dr, Ginny was embraced and accepted and led, ultimately, to the new me. My wife and I struggled through nine months of no physical contact or intimacy, however, through Dr. Ginny's advice and counseling was provided a distinct time frame and circumstances that would reconcile the indifference. When given the advice leading to the event - informed Dr. Ginny, that as proven as she had been in her track record and advice was ludicrous that my wife and I could return to a form of intimacy through a major and life-altering argument - but the reconciliation did occur through the specific means. Needless to say Dr. Ginny's advice in any matter or manner was never wrong. Dr. Ginny - although through - my lack of faith - replied: "prove me wrong!" Through two-thirds of an entire year, through feelings of inferiority, lack of self-worth, lack of direction or energy to move forward - Dr. Ginny remained at my ever constant need for support, affirmation and a plan of action associated with overcoming what seemed to be insurmountable odds - times which seemed hopeless and with no productive outcome. Dr. Ginny's gifts are without a doubt "God-given" and ordained and provided as such. Dr. Ginny's demeanor is always parlayed in a professional and sympathetic and strictly honest manner. Dr. Ginny does not offer a sugar coating to your circumstances and or the method in which they may work out, however, each of our lives in a manner where the truth will set you free, and Dr. Ginny provides the path, the light, and the direction to follow - without question. You may ask yourself - what is to there to be gained and in doing so - ask yourself another matter, the place in time where you currently preside, what else do you have to lose? Dr. Ginny will provide you with a resolute - meaning what the inevitable will become - it is your choice and free will instead you will accept and or reject that advice - however, I am a living testimony to her gift and believe as dictated by her gift that although the road has been extended and treacherous - my wife and I will ultimately spend the rest of our lives together and will have grown and our hearts and souls mesh - once again due to her divine intervention.